Women have generally been more susceptible to having to adapt and keep up with the next thing that will make them more pleasing to the eye, unaware and possibly unconscious that this eye that we are aiming to please is the very gaze that encouraged our adaptation in the first place. The male gaze and the patriarchal societal influence have effectively influenced women’s need to become as perfect or as pleasing and appealing as possible.
Here is a video from The Dove Project highlighting how AI is also adding to the problem of distortion of how women and girls should look.
Women may engage in various behaviors to align with societal standards often influenced by the male gaze. Here are some general aspects to consider:
1. Adjusting Appearance: Women might change their style, makeup, or hair to fit perceived ideals of beauty that are often shaped by male preferences.
2. Curating Social Media Profiles: Many women may post carefully selected images that highlight their attractiveness or lifestyle, seeking validation through likes and comments.
3. Modifying Behavior: Some women might alter their speech, interests, or hobbies to appeal more to men or to fit into traditional gender roles.
4. Fashion Choices: Wearing specific clothing styles that are deemed attractive or appealing to men.
5. Engaging in Fitness Trends: Participating in fitness routines or diets that emphasize physical appearance may be influenced by the desire to meet societal beauty standards.
6. Social Interactions: Women may navigate social situations in ways that prioritize male comfort or approval.
7. Seeking Approval: Many women might look for affirmation from men in their personal and professional lives, reinforcing the need for male validation.
8. Avoiding Certain Topics: Some may choose to steer conversations away from topics that could be perceived as unattractive or unappealing to men.
If you or someone you know is struggling with any of these issues, it might be worth seeking
a professional to talk it through. Get in touch with me to arrange a free 15-minute conversation.
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